tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3274401.post5541147415549609168..comments2023-10-29T04:50:15.837-04:00Comments on I Chase Boys: Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08249972066135148788noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3274401.post-38522478225118593802007-12-12T08:48:00.000-05:002007-12-12T08:48:00.000-05:00I think there's a vast difference between showing ...I think there's a vast difference between showing affection for your partner (kissing, cuddling), and showing off the fact that you guys are having sex -- whoops, there's her boobs. I tend to assume my coupled friends are having sex, and I don't really need to have them prove it to me. <BR/><BR/>At the same time, I'd hope that if someone had a question or concern about their sex life, they'd feel comfortable bringing it up around their friends, or to a particular friend, so they could get advice or whatever -- but I suspect that'll almost never happen because we know all too well who people are talking about. :)<BR/><BR/>But I agree with you about the friends/social settings part, and I feel the same way. So don't worry, it has nothing to do with whether or not you're more conservative than others in the group -- you and I just have different ideas of what's respectful behaviour among friends, or something. :)Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08249972066135148788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3274401.post-54580788444119991812007-12-11T20:49:00.000-05:002007-12-11T20:49:00.000-05:00I was so relieved to read this. I actually have s...I was so relieved to read this. I actually have similar views - but I never have the guts to voice them because: a) I'm already considered more conservative than the majority of our social circle, b) I'm already considered more prudish than the majority of our social circle. Therefore, I feel like anything I would say along these lines would be instantly dismissed, and cause everyone to be offended. For me, I feel most uncomfortable seeing this type of behaviour in social settings with friends (when it crosses the line) - because I think it should be private, and it just makes me want to stop socializing with people I actually like.Madhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01386104677014477456noreply@blogger.com