Okay, well, this is both sad and disgusting.

I saw Night at the Museum last night with the Newf, and had a great time. The movie was decent, the company was great, and we both had a lot of fun together. It's nice when you can part on good terms with an ex- -- I include in this the runner (though we don't actually speak anymore, I think because I turned him down for a booty call that one time), the GLR (who still needs a new name), Moose (though that took some doing)... this just goes to show that I do date good people, and I can end things on good terms. Sometimes.

I was having concerns lately about my perceived tendency to use people. I should say that the perception is mine; I worry that I use people, in many ways: leaning on friends when I need support, flirting with friends or past exes when I need a self-esteem boost, booty-calling exes when I need some lovin'... I've been in situations where exes requested sex and I turned them down for various reasons, but when I requested sex, I usually got it. Is this a sign of me using someone, or is it just a sign that my exes are more willing/able to put out than I am? Maybe I just caught them at the right moment.